It’s no secret that a successful relationship can be the key to happiness. But sometimes, even the strongest of relationships needs some help from time to time. Feng shui is an ancient art and science that has been used for centuries to create harmony in both homes and businesses. It can also be used as a way to enhance your bedroom and love life to improve intimacy with your partner.
When you’re ready to give your relationship and boost, look at these feng shui tips and rituals to help you improve your bedroom’s energy and add more romance to your life – more life to your romance.
1. Create a clear, cleansed space for love.
Set an intention to clear your space and open it to love and romance. Clear excess clutter and clean your bedroom. Next, light a candle and some incense and set it in your bedroom.
With a bell or singing bowl, start at your bedroom door and moving in a clockwise circle, ring a bell or singing bowl in your bedroom, stopping at your bed and ringing the bell three times, and then finishing the rest of the room.
The incense, fire from the candle, and the bell will help to clear the room of any lingering arguments or old or stale energy. Blow out the candle when you’ve completed this simple clearing step.
2. Create a bedroom designed for romance.
To get in the mood, the setting is important. Is your bedroom décor enticing, romantic and sensuous? If not, grab your partner and come up with a plan to make it into a bedroom you both find romantic and enjoyable.
Go through decorating websites together to find a style that suits you both. Look for designs that are make the romantic meter peg in the red, like a canopy bed, a plush headboard, or a faux fur throw for the end of the bed. Pick out some silky sheets, artwork, and bed linens that give your bedroom the five-star hotel kind of romantic look.
3. Give your relationship space.
For the romantic fires to burn, make sure there is space for intimacy in your bedroom by removing excess clutter, like exercise equipment, and create as much space as you especially around the bed.
4. Picture yourselves in love.
Can you remember a time when your relationship was extra sexy? Add a photo of the two of you from that time to help re-ignite the spark of love. Take wedding pictures and family photos out of the bedroom and, if you don’t have any photos of yourselves from that time, pick out an image that makes you both think of love or romance.
5. Energize your bedroom with yin energy.
Although we mostly hear about yang energy in feng shui, yin energy is the energy of lasting, deep and romantic love. Give your bedroom the cozy, sexy cocoon appeal with dimmer switches, candle wall sconces, and black out curtains. Nothing is as sensual as low-lighting and a feeling of complete privacy.
6. Use Moon magic with this relationship protector ritual.
One of the best ways to ground your relationship is with an amethyst geode. These beautiful stones create great love luck! Look for one that is deep purple, sparkling and that attracts you. Let it soak in salt water in sunlight for at least four hours on the day before the full moon. If it rains that day, that’s great. Rainwater is also a natural energizer and cleanser.
Rinse the water from your stone, and on the night of the full moon, let your geode sit out under the moon all night. In the morning, wrap your geode with red ribbon, leaving a length of ribbon attached.
Tie the ribbon at the foot of the bed on the right side (as you look at the bed), and leave it under the bed to ground your relationship and love for one another. If you like, you can add two geodes, one on each side of the bed, but one will suffice. Do this before noon the next day, the earlier in the morning, the better.
Single? If you’re looking for a male partner, tie the geode under the bed on the right as you look at the bed. For a female partner, tie the geode under the left side of the bed as you look at it. The beautiful earth energy of the amethyst draws and attracts love to you and enhances your love luck.
